Transparency Requirements

To keep our community authentic and help everyone put their best real self forward, we ask that all profiles meet the following requirements:

Photo requirements

  1. No beauty filters or face-altering filters: Filters that change your facial features, skin texture, or body shape (e.g., smoothing, slimming, or enlarging eyes/lips) are not permitted.
  2. No excessive face/body retouching: Light color adjustments are fine, but don't edit your appearance in ways that could mislead others.
  3. No AI-generated or AI-altered photos: Photos created or altered by AI and deepfakes are not allowed.
  4. No photos of objects, pets, or scenery as your main profile picture: Additional photos can include these, but your first photo should be a clear, recent picture of you. Group photos are allowed, as long as you are easily identifiable.

Profile requirements

  1. No fake profiles: Catfishing, impersonation, or using someone else's photos/information is strictly prohibited. Use your real name or a common nickname - no fake names.
  2. Answer the INNI assessment honestly: Your results help match you with compatible people. Be yourself, there are no “right” answers.
  3. Be truthful about your age, job, and education: Your age must reflect your real, current age. Don't exaggerate or misrepresent your job title, employer, or education.
  4. Don't mislead others: Be honest about your relationship status, kids, or anything else that would affect a real connection. Don't fake your lifestyle or key details about yourself.

These rules help ensure that everyone can present themselves authentically and meet people who want to connect with the real you.

If you see that your profile is temporarily on hold, it will be reviewed at the end of that two weeks. If you have made the necessary changes, your profile will be reinstated, otherwise it will remain on hold.